Most relationships are founded on mutual exploitation between the man and the woman, with self at the center even of the most apparently "good" works. Real love is a contract first before God, and does not exploit. God's plan for real love is:
Today's society has turned the order upside down. There is no God in our relationships and marriages.
Do you have a heart that can love right, or is it sinful at its core? Does your heart have Jesus in it?